What's Complimenting Got To Do With It?

Hello Bunnays and puPpays. Just sharing my thoughts with you .....My girlfriends and I were debating about a particular topic.

I was telling my girlfriends in a joking way that I saw this beautiful woman with a nice a$$. After my statement my friend said " homo!". I instantly got annoyed.
Why can’t another secure beautiful woman compliment another beautiful, pretty, fabulous, sexy, hot, voluptuous woman? So she had a nice body, why not tell her? It’s not like I said "lemme jump your bones, honey" or whatever.
However, I have been and currently am working hard to lose those extra pounds and working towards a Bootylicious Me. women and men compliment me all the time and I thank them and smile. Their compliments actually motivate me to continue to maintain my body and stay healthy.It’s the little things that make me smile.
Most of us Women have relied on men so much to tell us how beautiful we are. Some women try so hard to impress men by getting plastic surgery, butt implants, breast implants, etc. So many of us women are walking around with low self-esteem because a man hasn’t told us we are pretty yet (or pretty enough).
Ladies,I have realized that we don’t need validation or compliments, All you have to do is compliment another woman, please. I feel more special when a woman compliments me instead of a man simply because I feel like it’s an honor actually. when a man compliments you ...

For so many years women have competed, trying to outdo one another and acting out of jealousy instead of telling each other how they really feel. Words are very powerful. We all are guilty of using words to put people down and hurt feelings. Instead, why not lift a person up and tell them they’re beautiful if you know they are? I know beauty when I see it and I love beautiful people inside and out, so when I see anything beautiful I am not afraid to speak my mind and compliment.

“Its beauty that captures your attention, But its the personality which captures your heart.”

Rediscovered !!

“Don’t wait for others to praise you or motivate you. You are your best friend. If there is a small change be sure you will notice before others. Be happy for every tiny change you see”

pUckER uP - its kissing time !

I am a hopeless romantic ... it's an undeniable fact. I'm all for handwritten love letters, cute little surprises, moderate amounts of PDA, and those borderline crazy, desperately in love, I-can't-live-without-you scenes that DON'T only happen in movies.

That being said, I'd like to share the 5 (very cliche, but also very romantic) kisses that I daydream about...

1. The First Kiss

This may seem simple and ordinary, but keep in mind, I know a couple who proclaimed they waited until MARRIAGE to have their first kiss!! I wouldn't be able to do that , it does remind us of how meaningful the first kiss can be....My first kiss (ever) was kind of traumatizing

... the guy used a lot of tongue and I basically fell over because he was so into it... I dreaded our next kiss... thank god it never happened .

2. The Kiss in the Pouring Rain

It would be slightly uncomfortable to get soaked, but wouldn't it be worth it?! To share a dramatic movie-scene kiss, just like in The Notebook and Sweet Home Alabama and probably a hundred other chick flicks. I'm not sure how I would go about planning this... not to mention, the guy would have to be okay with getting drenched. It's still fun to think about.

3. The Kiss Under the Mistletoe

Self-explanatory. It wouldn't need to be a make out session... a quick peck would be nice. It's just a cute, cheesy thing to do during the holidays. Extra points if you put it somewhere that isn't noticeable right away and lure your man into the trap! Hahahaha.

4. The New Year's Eve Kiss

Picture this - a late night party with a disco ball, fireworks lighting up the sky, people everywhere, and then... time stands still, and all of a sudden you only see one person in the room. Psh, yeah right !! that's not gonna happen. I spend my New Year's at home with a few friends, flipping through tv to see how Hong Kong's fireworks compare to Times Square in NY. If I ever do end up at a party, though, a kiss at midnight would surely make the countdown more exciting. And worthwhile.

5. The Wedding Day Kiss

I don't know how I'm going to make it through my wedding day without bawling like 5 times. I know I'm going to be emotional and it'll be a challenge keeping composure in front of everyone. Out of all the kisses on my list, this one would be the most meaningful of all... the first kiss as husband and wife. A kiss that will seal the deal for the rest of my life. I hope and pray that I will marry the right man!

Have you experienced any of these kisses? Can you think of any to add to the list?

SnEEz-GAsM !!

SNeeZgASm

Gosh !! I loves me a good sneeze. When I sneeze, I'm all in. If I'm standing up there's usually a straight-leg kick involved. If I'm sitting down, arms will flail. And they're loud.There is no point in sneezing if it is not a full body experience that involves all extremities and the entirety of your torso, all expelled through your face in a 700 mile-an-hour plume with the concussive force of a bird strike against a Boeing.

I acquired my devastating sneeze style because of my allergies that eventually merged into one never-ending soul-destroying miasma of mucoid misery. (Alliteration! Woo!) I grew bored with shouting "Ah-CHOO!" Who thought up "ah-choo" anyway? There's no reason it has to be that. I started with "Ah-HAAAH!" which made me sound like a brilliant inventor or an overenthusiastic detective, depending on the day. "Bla-hurrrgh!" was good, too, kind of a zombie sneeze, and "Wa-harrrrgh!" as well, which sounded like I was about to plunge off a cliff.Those were particularly satisfying, all guttural and fatalistic, especially if I got several in a row.

Some people don't know how to sneeze. They sneeze with a loud, sharp, half an "Ah!" followed by a soft "Choo!" that sounds almost exactly like a tiny Pikachu noise. Then they say "Excuse me." No one blesses them, because it's clear that they are embarrassed and guilty and deserve what's coming to them. Other people can't bring themselves to sneeze at all. They go "Knxthch!" and their eyes get momentarily huge. I don't understand such people!!

Although my allergies are not persistant ,I still have occasion to sneeze, and when I do I revel in the convulsive ballet of maxillary, trigeminal, and vagus nerves, the cascade of histamines, the spasm of the pharyngeal and tracheal muscles.


Sneezgasm : better than an orgasm ?

Well... dont think soOO

But, in general, much more acceptable at public places.

"LIBERATING" - never settle for less than you deserve!

How I did it : I managed to let go toxic friendships that were just draining the life out of me, letting go of super selfish people who only cared for themselves, unwilling to be there or at least listen to others. let alone showed some respect.

I did not settle for any guy just to avoid loniliness, just for the sake of companionship, because they deserve better, to be respected and cherished.

I did not settle for a safe job just so that I can easily pay my bills, I choose a career which challenges me, which allows me to grow, which I am passionate about.

I did not just follow my faith blindly, just merely following what everyone else is doing, I was fortunate to have finally found the perfect spiritual path for me, and boy oh boy am I greatful for this.

I do not let peoples thoughts and words put me down, they do affect me sometimes, but i live my life the best way i know how, i give my best to everyone, they can say i am too naive and call me " Miss Goodie Two Shoes", but i am playing a bigger game in life where my ego can expect a lot of challenge and resistance from me. I deserve to live my life the best way i know how. I deserve to be myself, for how can I be otherwise.

My Mantra :Just live your life the best way you know how. Take the hardship, challenges, and all the bullshit in life as a learning process, a chance to be a new you, a bigger grand version of yourself, its ironic that the hardest moments in life is also the best moment of growth.


Resources: A heart that beats with determination and the will to never give up, no matter how hard or depressing and dire the situation is.

F.R.I.E.N.D.S !!

Have you ever wondered what the real essence of the saying....

"A Friend in Need is a Friend Indeed" is?

People talk about the true value of friendship actually without knowing what it stands for. According to me true friendship is the one, in which you do not have to maintain formalities with each other.
True friends are not opportunists. They don't help, because they have something to gain out of it. True friendship is marked by selflessness.... It is not easy getting true friends for the lifetime. If you have even one true friend, consider yourself blessed. Remember, all best friends are friends, but not all friends can be best friends....

a true friend, is someone who really cares, listens to whatever you have to say, no matter what it is, no matter how important it is. someone whom you can rely on,
knows how you feel,
no matter when,
no matter how busy they are.
someone who will be there,
promises to stay,
no matter what,
no matter when. someone who wont break any promises,
tries their best to keep them,
no matter how small they are,
no matter what it is. someone who listens to your every word,
never interrupting you,
no matter how much,
no matter how nonsensical. someone who listens to your every complaints, comforting you, no matter how irrelevant, no matter how crappy.

someone who calls you every now and then,
asking you ‘how are you’ telling you how much you mean to them,
no matter when.

someone who volunteers to lend you a listening ear,
and a crying shoulder,
no matter how they feel themselves,
no matter when.

someone who cannot be replaced,
even with a hundred people.
because for true friends,
even when they dont speak much,
in your heart you know it all...

In this world of cynics and back stabbers, I was lucky to find some people who are worth being friends with. .. An Ode to my true friends ....I silently thank god for introducing you in my life..I want you to know you are such an important part of my LIFE ..and I want to thank you for being such an amazing FRIEND .

HURT :“Being hurt by someone you truly care about leaves a hole in you heart !!

Your words ...they cut me so deep leaving painful gashes on my heart...I won't let you hurt me any more..I'm done giving you power,control over me.....Maybe there will be some scars....Scars of the things you did..that will haunt me forever.
Maybe the harsh words have been said......and the damage has been done...I'll live with those scars.

I'll look at them.....those gashes formed by the words you said and remember the hurt you caused me...
It's not easy to walk away...each step I took away from you ...brought the hurt and the pain.....
But I kept on walking.....

Finally, I've taken off the mask Of a perfect happy girl.
I'm through with bottling it all inside.......It's time for me to just be myself and not let you force me to be someone I'm not...

I'm done ...I won't let you........and.... you can't hurt me anymore !!