Saying HELLO to 2012 ~

We're all set for the new year, aren't we? [Does anyone notice time passes so quickly now??] A whole year has passed, sheesh ! Here I am, going through the tedious task of making a new year's resolution once more. Following or not following is another matter, having an over-ambitious list is a debate.. But hey, haven't you heard em say: reach for the stars!

 LIVE it!! I want too start doing things I want to do rather than doing only the things that I should be doing. I don't want regrets of living an unlived life. This is my gift, there's a reason I'm here and no one can understand that reason better than me. I'm going to be good to myself and I'm going to share what I have in me.

Lose weight: I intend to lose weight. I hate it when my old clothes don't fit and I hate the whole feeling of being lazy. I love the feeling of breathing clear and healthy, of being up and running on my toes practically the entire time I'm awake. I love salads and greens and every thing healthy. I love drinking lots and lots of water and see it clear me inside out. This year, I plan to be healthy again. My insanely continuous sweet diets have to stop!

[Yea, I look like that lazy kitty right now!]  :p

 

 Take the leap! I think I should be some place else, doing something else, something far better with my life...True, monetary aspects can't be ignored; but I'm beginning to think I have to take a leap sometime.

Why not NOW? What am I waiting for?

 

 

Sleep! I want to get plenty of sleep. Yes.
Period.
:P

Helping out! What's a life worth living, if it's not for the people around you? Thankfully, I'm surrounded by many people who share the same feelings for the poor and the weak, people in my family, friends and at my workplace. They are an inspiration. This time around I want to be part of them and inspire someone else! :)

 

Remaining Positive! I'll make an effort to be more positive.Every day that I write here about positivity is like a lesson for me too.  Focus, ambition, devotion... I'm looking towards an all new me. At least I want to give it a shot. 

Family First! I want to be a better person for my family. I wanna take the phone and call up all those friends that I lost touch with. Everything feels more wonderful when you've got people to share it with. I wanna work on relationships this year and take them more seriously. There might have been times I've seemed careless or indifferent, but really... I'm not. I'm gonna make up for all that.

 

 Being ME! Most importantly, I wanna be me.I've tried everything it takes and learnt you get tired once in a while: I don't fake it. I don't like faking it. I don't want to fake it. The people who really love me will love me anyway. 

It takes courage being yourself.

 

Here's to a wonderful New year ...

and a warm adieu to the old ..

Happy New Year!

*smiles*

Because the time is gOne ·٠•● Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ

Dear Friend, Stranger, the Once-Upon-A-Soul-Mate.


Because every day wasn't my fault. Because I tried; I really tried.....
Because you couldn't see me. Because you didn't let me see you as you were; with all the goodness and all the flaws.....
Because I was going crazy. Because we had no end together. Because you owed me a better version of yourself. Because I deserved something better from you.
Time's up....... I don't have time left for you. 


Farewell.


                 Now Playing - Rolling in the deep |Boyce Avenue (Adele)

Welcome to the KoLaverimania !

Whether it may be any social networking sites like Facebook and Twitter, or the online media sites such as YouTube, everywhere the latest rage is about the song Kolavari di. This peppy number with bizarre lyrics is driving everyone crazy.
 Granted that Kolavari di  is a mish-mash of English and Tamil but it’s fairer to say it’s 80% nonsense.
“Kolaveri” is Tamil for “murderous rage,”
di- often used to call girls in a crude way (shortened form of de'ar),
soup- love failure (rejected),
mama- dude.
 it's no surprise that the song of a jilted boy asking the girl why she did that to him (Why this Kolaveri?) has become an anthem. The pure emotions of breakup is the highlight, which every single youth in this country can relate to. In fact, its mad lyrics are part of its success.

This music comes directly from heart without any second thought and deliberation on the consequences. Anything straight from heart lives to rule and amuses the masses. I am loving it!
 Here's wishing it all the more fame & success......Superu. Superu. ;)


Now What? ........... Enjoy this Friggn awesome song!! ;)

Here's the lyrics for those who aren't glued to this song yet :

 

The soup song

Yo boys i am singing song
soup song
flop song
why this kolaveri kolaveri kolaveri di  (x 4)

Distance la moon-u moon-u
moon-u  colour-u 
white-u white background night-u night-u night-u colour-u black-u
why this kolaveri kolaveri kolaveri di (x 4)

White skin-u girl-u girl-u
girl-u heart-u black-u
eyes-u eyes-u
meet-u meet-u my future dark
Why this kolaveri kolaveri kolaveri di  (x 4)

Oh Dear Me !!

Dear Me ,


Thanks for being who you're , you're so easy to be ..
because you're not perfect & you try to be either.
You cry when you feel like & say sorry so easily ..
It shouldn't be difficult being you I guess !!


Take Care !
Kichus ~

Writing for a cause - SAVE the innOcence !!!

A few days back I went out for ice-cream with my friends. But to my disappointment, I couldn’t enjoy it. A small child hardly 5 or 6 years old came to me. He was very cute, with pink cheeks, hair made up just right; not to mention his clothes were nice and clean. I was just wondering what he was doing there when to my horror, he lifted his hand. He had a handful of pencils; he was selling them. In the developing world that we live in, child labor is something very common. We see it every day around us, we have partially become numb to it. But this child here, he was so darn cute, his eyes so bright, his smile so innocent… those pink cheeks, and the way he held out those few pencils to me, it really broke my heart.  
I offered him some money. You know what the child did? He refused to take the money for nothing; he wanted to exchange them for pencils only. We bought some, and he went away happily. I felt a little happy about the way this little child had known the ethical difference between earning his living or begging for it. Obviously he learnt this from his parents who obviously, then, have morals. God knows what terrible condition they might be in that forced them to send their beloved child out like this. Simply tragic.

Among other things that I hate being in a developing country is seeing our children withering away like that. What with all the over population, high illiteracy rate, unemployment; and on top of that, the new financial crisis the world is facing now, the poor being its first victims. 

Why can’t the government do something about these innocent babies at least!! Frustration and anger rises in me when I see their helpless eyes… They did not deserve a life so miserable in any case!

 

 

Employing children as waiters, servants, mechanics, making them do everything that their tender hands are not yet ready to do; they are forced to grow up, forced to forget their chance on a happy carefree childhood, while others like them get education, are cared for and provided for. But these poor children learn the harsh realities of life before their young minds can even understand them; and earning the very hard way those grown-ups do. These children are treated brutally in many cases, including sexual abuse and harassing. When their soft, tiny, unskilled hands cannot learn a particular skill, they are mistreated, beaten up, cursed… And they grow up in fear.

The whole idea of this post is to ask you, to do a little something for these children. There are countless ways in which we can make life a little easier for them if we put our minds and hearts to it. To start with, there are so many related causes available on the Internet that one can join. You can donate money if you can afford it. If not anything, then you can promote this cause . 
November 14th is celebrated as children's day -Come on, let’s do something for these little angels. Let us make life seem a little bit easier for them. Trust me, in the end when you’re done, just their mere smiles will be so worth it!

 Now Playing - Heal the world | Micheal jackson

We are the world, we are the children

We are the ones who make a brighter day

So let’s start giving

There’s a choice we're making

We’re saving our own lives

It’s true we’ll make a better day

Just you and me

 

Enjoy the winter season ahead, and take very good care of yourselves and those around you.

Hugs~~

 

Note to SeLf ---> Keep Moving !!!

 

 

 

 

 You can either choose to carry the hurt inside you or you can let it make you a better person by learning something from it. You'll have your share of good and bad people in your life. While the good ones come by as blessings, without the bad ones you won't appreciate the goodness in them. So keep the good things and blow away every thing hurtful; life's too beautiful to miss!

 

 When you haven't forgiven those who've hurt you, you turn your back against your future. When you do forgive, you start walking forward.

 

Spread the love.

There’s always something to be thankful for........

Dear My Heart ,

Thanks for being so big and ambitious when it comes to LOVE. I can only hope the rest of me catches up with you someday .

Love ,
Blaze.

Dear Skype ,


Thanks for letting me have coffee with my friend across the seven seas.
Really appreciate it. See you soon .

Love,
Blaze.

Dear Goodbyes,

Thank you for almost never being final . I hope to bid you two, three, four times at least ..may be more.

All the best,
Blaze.

Dear Haircuts ,

Thank you for not being permanent.

Love,
Blaze.

             

               Dear Hope,
               Thank you for being alive .

                Love,
                Blaze.

MatrimOniaL masaLa !!

These are actual ads on a matrimony site. just read this and burst out laughing. Grammar and spelling errors have no place in a profile description as everything is straight from the heart!
Disclaimer : I am not responsible if you forget your basic grammar after reading this...

1) i am looking for soft and person with service minded
(err....soft and person? He wants a teddy bear).



2) hi i am looking for partner. tell to you later.
(oh! What a surprise! Shhhh. He’ll tell “to” us later).



3) hi I am looking for a nice paresan sample beautiful co operative sensitive wife................
(I hope he finds a nice paresan)



4) i need homemaker edn caste no bar. iam legaaly divorced living with widowed mother who is getting monthly pension Rs. 10, 000/... four sisters all married living in a rented hose working in the railway
(living in rented HOSE? Poor things!!)



5) i m stock market analyst, i do my self business [analysis & advice ] & for my clients.. since 1991-92 my nature is simple, no any bed habits, believe in god, heard working,
(NO bed habits? I want bed habits. Get lost. And he’s “heard working” too!)



6) Hello, I am simple, spiritual, nice. We speak Haryanvi at home, Hindi. I understand Punjabi but do not speak.  I am not into filmy-life. I listen to bhajans/kirtans. I keep life simple. I believe living life is better in family/relatives. I am here looking for a woman one who does not drink alcohol or smoke, non-veg is okay; I have less desire for non-veg. being talkative is okay, but not obnoxious, not money-crazy, one who is traditional yet 'knowledged'.
(Sorry, I am talkative AND obnoxious. But I am also “knowledged”)



7) hi i am malik from spain i luking very nice girl honest
(Really? You luking very nice girl honest? Good on you, mate!)



8) he is a farmer, 150 acres of land, only 2 sisters i married younger yet to be, no other liabilty, he is handsome truely veg.
(He is TRUELY veg. He is a cow.)



9) Also, Passionate doctor, working as a Assistant Surgeon cum Anaesthetist {government servant}. Also serving as NSVT Specialist {consulting}. I am looking for accomodative medico {MD/MS/Diploma/MBBS/BDS/MDS/BAMS} or any other professionally qualified bride.
(Uggggghhhhh, a passionate doctor working as a Surgeon cum Anaesthetist and wanting an “accommodative medico”...ugggggghhhh.....they should censor these posts!!)



10) hi im family living person my marrige life is 11 yers gone then NOW DIVORCE IN PROCESS.
(He needs counselling.)



11) My cousine looking for a good charactred bride with graduation & age 30-35 range looking for partner tell you later.
(Your cousine can look someplace else.)



12) I AM SELF MADE BUSINESS MAN WAS WORKING NOW RUNNING MY OWN MULTIPAL KIND OF BUSSINESES
(MULTIPAL? Sounds cool.)



13) hi i am new this side i dont know how i start but just i want say i am honest man and i have big heart i like honesty and i dont like lie other things we can share over phone i am looking nice girl who know means good life not only make kids i dont like money minded girl respect frist and understand eachothers i am going india visit 4 march 2011 i dont know how long i stay there if any body like my profile and want talk with me most wel come drop me yours phone and emails i can call you but plz only real not time pass
(I like him. Respect “frist” and understand eachothers”. This is the right way ahead).



14) i am searching good lucking smart, beautiful girl.
(Good lucking to you, mate!)



15) very emotional very jovel and understanding religious
(Really? Still emotional and jovel despite the religious?)



16) Honest and simple, prefer who likes cooking and be patient and matured. must be relocatable. Must be clean and organized.
(Oooooh. MUST BE RELOCATABLE. Mustn’t have her @$$ fixed to the floor)



17) i am care and loving person. i am working at paradigm electronics about 10 yrs. parts and service manager in there.
(Parts and service? Sounds VERY interesting. I’m in.)



18) he is fun loving person, easy to mix with. he like to make new friends and traveling. he need someone who dont kick him from back.
(Oh, I’d be HAPPY to kick him from front.)



19) Hi!! I am Cassanova I have completed my Associates degree in Health Sciences.
(Cassanova? Not Cassava-nova?)



20) cool mind and having strong nevers. trust worthy and help ful. i like music, long drive, fishing and cooking games, boating, watching movies
(Strong nevers? NEVER NEVER, not even if you are help ful.)



21) I am a sincer man. as i am working in Jamaica. I love to listen music news and sport and computer.
(Yo soy un hombre sincero...and he listens to “music news” too!)



22) I M AGED DIVORCED PERSON.. AND LOOKING ABOUT 30 TO 40 YEAR WODDOW... OR DIVORCED.. OR LITTLE HANDICAPED.. LADY FOR MARRIAGE...BUT ONLY CANADIAN... OR AUSTRALIAN.. ONLY. ACTUALLY I WANN TO SPEND MY LAST STAGE TIME IN ABROAD.
(What a pity I’m not a WODDOW. I would have applied immediately!)



23) i like to unterstanting person share my feeling. give respect. love every persons. not get angery for simple things. becose we live once in this world. we have to be happy all this time.
(Philosophy teacher)



24) Little religious, exercised spiritura or supernaturals, looking for preety
(He’s an alien)



25) iam a good natured person and i prefer a cooperative wife.
(Really? Cooperative? I thought joint stock company was better.)

26) i want a girl with no drinks if she wants she can wear jeans in house but while steping out of house she should give recpect to our cast
(by not wearing her jeans? ahem...)

27) Im very out going and jolly gay.
(Err....that says it ALL.)

Disney ConnexN !!

When I was a little girl, I dearly wished to be a mermaid. I was thoroughly taken by the red headed, free spirited Ariel from The Little Mermaid. There have been many nights when I used to pray as hard as I could for God to magically turn me into a mermaid when I woke up in the morning. I actually believed that will happen if I prayed hard enough. Why, I'll be so persuasive God will see how good I am and grant me this humble wish. Surely it will not be a big deal for him. And when I wake up and see that I have grown fins, I'll ask mama not to miss me too much and to set me free into the ocean. **giggles**

The more important task at hand was to live that free willed, free spirited life, and isn't that such a life demands sacrifices? Surely mama will understand and will move closer to the ocean so we can see and meet each other often. Realizing I had to have a Plan B, in case for some reason God decides not to turn me into a mermaid was to be, what else, but a human. That would be boring. But well, that was another way of being, wasn't it? I missed out being the lovely Ariel and meeting Prince Eric. Not to mention Flounder and Sebastian. Blah! I was crazy or what. Plan A was full of complications but was very rewarding; Plan B was easy, more natural to me and boring :/ No fish friends, no singing and dancing, no mane of flaming red hair, not having a father who was kind of the seven seas, no prince charming, (ahem). I was a sad puppy.
So where does this story lead to? No where actually, except that I got stuck on being a human and it turned out it wasn't so bad. Of course I had pangs of longing of being a mermaid till I was 13, but I eventually got over it. I grew up and tackled a few things and realized I didn't have to be a mermaid or a fish to be free spirited. I could do it right in my own skin and the way I was. It was just a matter of choice that always came with difficulty but was very rewarding. You shape yourself not by the color of your hair or anything you carry or wear. You define yourself simply by the choices you make in life.

Choose wisely!


P.S. Oh and have a Plan B, please. In case you mess up! Disney has this way of tampering with your ability to distinguish between real and absurd notions.

 

 P.P.S. This write up does not guide you into the How-To's of getting a Prince Charming. There aren't many. Look elsewhere.

EASY WAY OUT ------------>

 

There is no easy way out of problems. The only right way is going all the way. Sometimes it costs you a hell lot of things, but then you must know, in the closing moments of the day, the only one left with you is your shadow.  The question is: can you face yourself after the choices you make?

So, even though there may be an easy way out for me, I'll take the longer route. I need to be answerable to myself at the end of the day. No regrets in life for life. Tomorrow is going to be one heck of a brilliant day. I'm gonna OWN it well!

Hope u hv a gr8 weekend! 

Toodles~

Lights will guide you home, and ignite your bones, and I will try... to fix you...

There must be a perfect love out there somewhere, the kind of love which leaps up into anything and everything for you. I'm sure it's not something out of this world, because there are so many people who have lived their whole lives together and have grown old together.

 

I know, things like love and life are totally overrated. And I also know that it's gonna be just about one of these days that I'll wake up with a thoroughly practical view of how love should be lived in this life. I'll wait for that day when finally my mind will rule my emotions and it will all get easy.Till that day comes, I guess I'll enjoy this joy ride no matter how absurd it gets.

 

This is a 17 year old speaking in me: I know there's love out there, the kind that saves you from perdition and restores you to yourself. The kind that holds hands and closes eyes, the kind that leave love notes under the pillow and the kind that gifts flowers. The kind that kisses you to sleep and wake you to more kisses. The kind that makes every happiness worth while and every sadness seem as the passing phase it surely is. The kind that make you feel like a woman and a girl all at the same time, intimate, close and so very dear. There must be a rainbow for each and every one of us; may we all get to see our dreams with that someone special.You are beautiful to someone.

                                            Now Playing : Fix You |Cold Play 

When you try your best but you don't succeed
When you get what you want but not what you need
When you feel so tired but you can't sleep
Stuck in reverse

And the tears come streaming down your face
When you lose something you can't replace
When you love someone but it goes to waste
Could it be worse?

Lights will guide you home
And ignite your bones
And I will try to fix you

Live for tOday .... we'll Dream tOmorrow !!

I love tomorrows. All of them. They kinda make you feel you can last forever. That's a mighty big feeling you know. There are so many things left to be done but they can wait. Not for too long. Just till tomorrow ;)

This is the last cup of coffee I'm drinking with sugar in it. From tomorrow, there will only be sugar-less cups of coffee on the face of this earth :p

The perfect job can wait for me, I promise I'll get serious about it tomorrow. And so will  my gym workouts. 
Why not today? It's so tough *makes a tired face* I'll be pushing my legs today and I don't want to do that to them! Give them time at least till tomorrow.

Tomorrow I plan to make time from work and go for that much deserved walk...that somehow isn't so deserving today! 
Tomorrow, I'll fight them. Why fight today? I have a headache and I don't want any more of it. I'll be open and frank and I'm sure they will understand tomorrow as much as they will today. But NO. Not today.Tomorrow. Please. It's only a day away and I can use today for any last hugs and kisses in case they choose not to understand. Tomorrow is precious you see. It seems to cater everything I need to do neatly. And it sure does seem infinite!
  

How many tomorrows? I don't know. Plenty there are and plenty there will always be. But you will not understand the value of your tomorrows until you realize there isn't going to be one. Do it today, do it now. Make tomorrow really worth while like it's always meant to be.

Tomorrow never comes... Because when it does, then it's today and you're again waiting for tomorrow. ¤_O

 

Now Playing - Tomorrow | Grace Jones

Oh, the sun'll come out tomorrow,
So you gotta' hang on till' tomorrow,
Come what may.

Tomorrow tomorrow, I love you tomorrow,
You're only a day away.
 

The most romantic story is not Romeo and Juliet who died together, but grandpa and grandma who grew old together.

And that's the inspiration I'd like to share with you guys today. Come on, what's a love story without the hero and the heroine? Love stories need two people to make them happen! A lot goes into it, all the good stuff, a little magic, a touch of fairy tales and a whole lotta TWO big fluttering, swooning, blooming deep-red hearts!

This world is so beautiful, and the best thing about it is YOU, because it's you and you alone who can do the things you're meant to. Got a bad day? Going through a rough patch? Seems like this is the end? This is NOT the end. The best thing about this life is that it's full of lovely doors and delicate fences and each wall has a window that lets in the sunshine. Wait for your sunshine to come and trust me on this one, it's gonna be way more amazing than you ever imagined!

Don't waste life by waiting for "better days" to come. The best day is TODAY because today, you can make something out of the rest of your life. You have the power; just that it needs a little finding, my friend.

Believe.

Now Playing :Cyndi Lauper | Time After Time 

if you're lost you can look--and you will find me
time after time
if you fall I will catch you--I'll be waiting
time after time ...

Writing for a cause- ADOPT a Life !!!

Child Adoption - A term that perhaps receives a lot of admiration but few takers. 

We often hear people talking about adoption as the last resort if one is unable to conceive, even after resorting to artificial means. I ask myself why. Several answers come to mind after listening and hearing about child birth and related matters from very many people I've come across both at a personal level and at the hospital. Not surprisingly, at least for women, most answers relate to experiencing the feeling of a life growing inside them and the fear that their feelings of motherhood would somehow get diluted if the child doesn't come from their own womb.

For males, in general, more to do with having a kid who shares their blood line. And for parents and other elders whose opinions may have to be considered, sadly its got nothing to do with the child and everything to do with preserving their lineage and worrying about what the world would think. I've had the good fortune of being acquainted with a few couples who have in fact taken the bold yet noble step of not only adopting a child but also raising them successfully. Of course, it is not as easy as it sounds. Apart from the obvious legal, financial and social hurdles that need to crossed, an adopted child's complete acceptance depends upon the support of the entire family. 

I wonder why so many people look at adoption as if its a socially wrong thing to do? Isn't it morally right to give hope of a brighter future to someone who has essentially lost the most important thing as soon as they open their eyes to the world?If you ever happen to visit a child shelter, for a moment just stop and carefully look at the eyes of the kids, they will be yearning only for love and affection. 

Adopt. You will receive more than you can ever give.

If we're able to accept another person selflessly and completely as our own without any bias then I consider that as a life lived successfully. I believe that if the families that have trouble conceiving adopted and welcomed even one kid in their family, there would be less children out there deprived of parental love and affection.

ThanQ for visiting !

Stay blessed!

GOD must be a wonderful story teller .....

 

God must be a wonderful story teller. There are a billion people on this planet, and countless who have already left this world, yet each person's story is an unique one. Yours is entirely different from mine, yet our lives have a little bit of all the elements there are to life and that makes them similar. My life may seem totally separate from your story, but when you look at the bigger picture, you'll know that we all are moving in the same direction. We all have one destination, we're just taking a different route to it and so I say that God must really be an amazing story teller!

Look at how he completes everyone's story so beautifully; yours is different to mine, yet my story isn't complete without you and yours isn't complete without me. I keep wondering how my story will shape up, but nonetheless, we're all in this together, so hang on! *smiles*

Just a thought!

I hope you all have a great week ahead.

Toodles~

fOrward ·٠•●

I always wanted

to be careful

not to be too fast and

leave you behind,

so I let you

walk

one step

ahead of me.

Now I want

to run forward

as fast as I can

careful not to

let any memory

haunt me

  or frighten

or break me.

I want to run

ten steps

ahead of you..

fast forward 

this life

to a pace

where

there is

no thought of you

or of the love

or of my walking

one step behind you 

in love

always.

Now Playing : roLLing in the deep | Adele


The scars of your love remind me of us
They keep me thinking that we almost had it all
The scars of your love, they leave me breathless
I can't help feeling

We could have had it all
Rolling in the deep
You had my heart inside your hand
And you played it to the beat

-----------------------------------------------------

What comes to your mind when I say "forward"? If you have anything interesting please share ...

“One of the hardest things in life is having words in your heart that you can't utter.”

People keep asking me how my lovelife is. But for every person who asks me this question, to tell you the truth, I don’t know what to answer. So I take a few moments to think about it and I answer this with a smile:

“I think its okay.
I am happy.


It’s not like I can’t be happy without a guy in my life.”
And it’s true. But only part of it. I admit I feel lonely sometimes. It’s like my heart misses a certain “feeling”. It hasn’t beaten the way it did some months ago. The feeling of loving someone and being loved back is really a great feeling.After everything, I have concluded that relationships are so hard to handle. Like what I told my friend, to start a relationship you should be emotionally, spiritually, physically, everything-ally ready. If your answer is yes, then, you are ready for a relationship.


This may sound a little weird because you might think I’m taking relationships very seriously. But I think relationships should really be taken seriously. Because playing with a person’s heart is not the way it should be. I mean it’s ridiculous. People who play with other people’s hearts are ridiculous. They are insane. They should be placed behind bars!
(haha! Am I being mean? maybe, because I am bitter!)

I am so scared to give my heart to anyone. Because when I gave my heart away, it returned to me in little pieces. Broken pieces, actually. The problem is I don’t know how to actually put it all together again. Until I realized I’m still busy picking up the pieces of my broken heart. Up to this day.*The damage is too deep. *

 But one thing i have realised after the pain. It proved that I am a stronger person. And it’s a reminder for me to be more careful.



Although, it’s not an assurance. 

I believe that there is no perfect person or a perfect relationship. There is only a perfect couple who will never give up on each other.

My friends r the craziest idiOts i know ... but i Love em !!

Dear F.R.I.E.N.D.S,

ThanQ for being awesOme !! 
I've learnt a Lil bit of something from each one of you...
Thanks for smiling and shining .. n sharing ur colours !!
This wOrld is a cooler place when ur arOund ...
Thanks for being there ..I wish you more sunsHine !!



Loads of huggies n kichus ..
Blaze.

Ever notice how Cupid rhymes with Stupid ???

Dear Stupid Cupid ,

Did anyone tell you that flying around NAKED hitting people in their arses, is not a very good way of making them fall in love!!
There are other miseries in the world kiddo !!!
Go take a HIKE !! ThanQ very much !!!

-A dissatisfied customer .

A LiL truth about MEN ....

A recent study on MEN proves that:

1: White men
white men will have two girlfriends and have a wife, and he will still love his wife the most.

2: Coloured Men
coloured men will have three girlfriends and a wife, and he will still love his wife the most.

3: Black men
black men will have five to ten girlfriends and still love his wife the most.

No. 4 tops everyone.
4: Indian men
Indian men will have 2 girlfriends and a wife, but he will still love his mother the most.

 

People often say that if you wanna see how a man treats a woman, look at how he treats his mother....

FYI : I Love em mama's bOys ;)

 

... 3 cheers to all the mama's boys out there ! ...

half the girl I used to be...

Have you ever stopped and thought about the person you were some years back and the one you are now? Do you regret not knowing anything you'd rather have? Or do you think you were better in some way? 

 
There are nine questions ...It's fun, do take it up. And now, without further blabbering, I'm jumping into mine! :) 

1. Do you feel that you are essentially the same person that your were ten years ago?

I'm not the person I was ten years back, I have grown, rather evolved, emotionally. The girl ten years back had no idea of the world outside her little home. There are so many things I still don't know but I consider myself improved in the letting-go department. I was childishly cribby about change, still am, but coming to terms with it now has helped me a lot. It helped me grow. Ten years back I let my life be led for me, today I decide it's something I have to carve out for myself.

2. Is there something that you have to give all or nothing to?

I give my all to the people around me and I expect the same. People are something I cherish, because inside everyone there lies a certain beauty you can't help appreciating. Every person I don't know completely is like a book I've still to read, intriguing and captivating. The only difference is that unlike real books, I can't flip to the last page and get a sneak. Getting to know people is a joy in itself. You don't know they can teach you :)

 

3. Have you ever gambled? What have you bet on and for how much? 

Have I ever gambled? No, never. I don't even know how to play cards! 

   *makes an innocent face*

 

 

4. Can you sleep anywhere or does it have to be in a bed? 

I just have to sleep in a bed no matter how tired I am. My bed has to be soft and the pillows fluffy; I'm a little fussy with pillows. Nothing beats the feeling of sleeping in a comfy bed when you're tired or better yet, on a cold December night inside a warm bed!

5. Tell us about the most disastrous or embarrassing first impression you've ever made on someone.

Why don't we move on to the next question and come back to this one later? 

*looks here and there*

6. Do you have a memorable "ripped clothing" moment in your life? No?

Sorry, i can't share this one here, hehe!!

 

7. What's changed on your blog since its inception? ...a redo? ...a change of pace? ...or is it about the same?  

At first I used to write for exploring my creativity, now I write to explore myself! My pace has changed, I'm blogging more and more frequently now.My blogging experience has definitely undergone a major change.

8. If you could travel back in time and whisper something to yourself ten years ago, what would it be? 

I would tell myself that forgiveness is indeed a virtue, but some lines need to be drawn somewhere. I'll tell myself no matter how much you love someone or something, you need to bend to the principles you make for yourself and stick your guns to it.

 

9. Okay, let's have it! What's the craziest, most impulsive thing you've ever done?

I went looking for a friends house in the middle of the night (friend who didn't want to meet me ) and I was adamant that I wanted him to hear me out because I cared .....

sheesh kebab !! that was one adventurous night along Bigfoot road.I would have never been able to do it without my lady of candaLabia ...GLoria Fernandes **kichus**

I guess that was too impulsive and stupid. I still wonder how I did that? :D

Okay, now your turn!