F.R.I.E.N.D.S !!

Have you ever wondered what the real essence of the saying....

"A Friend in Need is a Friend Indeed" is?

People talk about the true value of friendship actually without knowing what it stands for. According to me true friendship is the one, in which you do not have to maintain formalities with each other.
True friends are not opportunists. They don't help, because they have something to gain out of it. True friendship is marked by selflessness.... It is not easy getting true friends for the lifetime. If you have even one true friend, consider yourself blessed. Remember, all best friends are friends, but not all friends can be best friends....

a true friend, is someone who really cares, listens to whatever you have to say, no matter what it is, no matter how important it is. someone whom you can rely on,
knows how you feel,
no matter when,
no matter how busy they are.
someone who will be there,
promises to stay,
no matter what,
no matter when. someone who wont break any promises,
tries their best to keep them,
no matter how small they are,
no matter what it is. someone who listens to your every word,
never interrupting you,
no matter how much,
no matter how nonsensical. someone who listens to your every complaints, comforting you, no matter how irrelevant, no matter how crappy.

someone who calls you every now and then,
asking you ‘how are you’ telling you how much you mean to them,
no matter when.

someone who volunteers to lend you a listening ear,
and a crying shoulder,
no matter how they feel themselves,
no matter when.

someone who cannot be replaced,
even with a hundred people.
because for true friends,
even when they dont speak much,
in your heart you know it all...

In this world of cynics and back stabbers, I was lucky to find some people who are worth being friends with. .. An Ode to my true friends ....I silently thank god for introducing you in my life..I want you to know you are such an important part of my LIFE ..and I want to thank you for being such an amazing FRIEND .

HURT :“Being hurt by someone you truly care about leaves a hole in you heart !!

Your words ...they cut me so deep leaving painful gashes on my heart...I won't let you hurt me any more..I'm done giving you power,control over me.....Maybe there will be some scars....Scars of the things you did..that will haunt me forever.
Maybe the harsh words have been said......and the damage has been done...I'll live with those scars.

I'll look at them.....those gashes formed by the words you said and remember the hurt you caused me...
It's not easy to walk away...each step I took away from you ...brought the hurt and the pain.....
But I kept on walking.....

Finally, I've taken off the mask Of a perfect happy girl.
I'm through with bottling it all inside.......It's time for me to just be myself and not let you force me to be someone I'm not...

I'm done ...I won't let you........and.... you can't hurt me anymore !!

Law of Karma: What You Give, You Get From Life!!

"Every action has an equal and opposite reaction," declared Isaac Newton in the 1700s. "Garbage in, garbage out," say geeks. Sow a seed, reap a fruit. Plant a chilli, you get chillies back. Plant a mango, you get mangoes back.... then i thought to myself but how is it that sometimes people sow chillies but get mangoes and others sow mangoes, but get chillies? I then figured that there's no inconsistency in this; the chillies are simply fruits of some earlier actions or decisions and the mangoes are yet to come.

One has to realise that you can't force a seed to grow. You can't compel a flower to blossom. These things depend on the seed type and environmental conditions. Therefore, one must not get dejected - one must not stop sowing good seeds, because there exists no other way to receive good fruits. Often, bitter, drier fruits are more nutritious and health-inducing than the succulent, sweeter ones.

The natural law of the universe : You get what you give, though you may not recognise it, because, it may arrive earlier or later than you expect it to or it could come in a somewhat different guise.

Lemme explain with an example : The cells in our body nourish one another, supporting and supplying each other with nutrients the other needs. The entire biological and ecological system combined makes possible the sustenance of the fabulous and intricate organic system/s we call 'LIFE'.

Similarly, if you befriend, you will be befriended. If you love, you will be loved. Love, family and friends enrich one's life more than any amount of wealth. But you need to make continual investments of friendliness, affection and love to keep the system fully functioning. This is because we are all human beings and we don't love all the time. Sometimes we say nasty things to a loved one - maybe we say things we don't really mean, but it amounts to a withdrawal from the love account. What you take out, needs to be redeposited as early as possible.

Affection and love are not about giving away money or buying expensive gifts, although it is necessary to do these things on certain occasions. When you give of your possessions, you give little. When you give of your self, you give all. Time, a sympathetic ear, humour or a helping hand in times of distress are all what more people need to receive and to give.

My MAntRa IN liFE :
"Give with your whole being, your whole heart - remember, half a seed cannot germinate. And after planting your seeds, expect absolutely nothing in return: Give without remembering you gave and take without forgetting you took."

Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow !!

Most of us stay walled up because we're afraid to care too much, or not to be cared about at all.
Have you ever denied your feelings for someone because your fear of rejection was too hard to handle?
we tell lies when we're afraid of what we don't know....afraid of what others will think, afraid of what will be found out about us....but every time we tell a lie, the thing we fear grows stronger.
I have come to realise that life is all about risks & it requires you to jump.... don't be a person who has to look back & wonder what they would have done, or could have had.
what would you do if every time you wanted someone they would never be there? what would you do if your best friend died tomorrow & you never got to tell them how much they meant to you?
So which is worse; saying something you wish you hadn't;or saying nothing & wishing that you had?

The pain I feel now is the happiness I had before!!

I hate how dispensable I am to people.
I hate how people feel they can just forget about me,
replace me, erase me without even a second thought.
It's like I don't matter to anyone. & hey, I mean I don't
blame you. I'm no one special. I just thought you were
different. I had more faith in you. & you took that,
ripped it up, shoved it in my face & walked away
without ever looking back.

Make things happen !!

What would you do right now if you knew that everything today would turn out perfectly?
What project would you start, what person would you talk to, what problem would you tackle if you could be assured of success?
Is there anything you're putting off because you're afraid of failure?
Is there anyone you're avoiding because you're afraid of what they would say or think?
There is no guarantee of success. But there is a guarantee that if you never go for it, you'll never have it.
And even in the failed attempts, you'll learn and grow.
There is no guarantee that other people will think highly of all you say and do. But that's their problem.
Do you believe in the worth of your own pursuits?
If so, then what could possibly prevent you from following them?
If you're looking for a sure thing, then here's one -- everything you achieve will come only from the things you attempt.
In order to succeed, you must proceed.... Today is a great day to start.

Life as i Know iT !!

Life as I KnOW iT ...............

I've learned that no matter how thin you slice it, there's always two sides.
I've learned that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.
I've learned it's a lot easier to react than it is to stop & think.
I've learned that you either control your attitude or it controls you.
I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had, & what you've learned from them, than how many birthdays you've celebrated.
I've learned that quantity is more important than quality when it comes to friends.
I've learned that it isn't enough to be forgiven by others. sometimes you just have to learn to forgive yourself.
I've learned that no matter how badly your heart is broken, the world won't stop for you.
I've learned that backgrounds & circumstances might have influenced who you are, but we are responsible for the people we become.
I've learned that you can't make somebody love you,all you can do is be somebody who can be loved.
I've learned that the word 'love' has many meanings, but it loses value when over-used and most importantly, I've learned that no matter how old or wise you think you are, life never stops teaching.