Hands up !! who hasn't heard this one before? 
LJBF Translation:.This line often means “I don't want to see you anymore, but I don't want to hurt your feelings (or mine by being honest with you). . I want to keep you on a string just in case the situation/my feelings/you change enough to keep me interested.. "I hope the axe sticking out of your spine doesn't hurt too much.” ..
So when a guy plays the 'LJBF Card' on you. How do you take it?
In the past i would have probably called him 'confusing', called up my girls for a vent on how frustrating it was that he was keeping me at a distance when he blatantly fancied me. I would have continued to let him 'dangle' the carrot of 'something more' everytime i saw him.... feeding his ego and feeling 'useless' and 'unattractive' with the unspoken rejection he teased me with.
A good plan is just to walk away—LJBS (“Let's just be strangers”).
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