Oh Dear Me !!

Dear Me ,


Thanks for being who you're , you're so easy to be ..
because you're not perfect & you try to be either.
You cry when you feel like & say sorry so easily ..
It shouldn't be difficult being you I guess !!


Take Care !
Kichus ~

Writing for a cause - SAVE the innOcence !!!

A few days back I went out for ice-cream with my friends. But to my disappointment, I couldn’t enjoy it. A small child hardly 5 or 6 years old came to me. He was very cute, with pink cheeks, hair made up just right; not to mention his clothes were nice and clean. I was just wondering what he was doing there when to my horror, he lifted his hand. He had a handful of pencils; he was selling them. In the developing world that we live in, child labor is something very common. We see it every day around us, we have partially become numb to it. But this child here, he was so darn cute, his eyes so bright, his smile so innocent… those pink cheeks, and the way he held out those few pencils to me, it really broke my heart.  
I offered him some money. You know what the child did? He refused to take the money for nothing; he wanted to exchange them for pencils only. We bought some, and he went away happily. I felt a little happy about the way this little child had known the ethical difference between earning his living or begging for it. Obviously he learnt this from his parents who obviously, then, have morals. God knows what terrible condition they might be in that forced them to send their beloved child out like this. Simply tragic.

Among other things that I hate being in a developing country is seeing our children withering away like that. What with all the over population, high illiteracy rate, unemployment; and on top of that, the new financial crisis the world is facing now, the poor being its first victims. 

Why can’t the government do something about these innocent babies at least!! Frustration and anger rises in me when I see their helpless eyes… They did not deserve a life so miserable in any case!

 

 

Employing children as waiters, servants, mechanics, making them do everything that their tender hands are not yet ready to do; they are forced to grow up, forced to forget their chance on a happy carefree childhood, while others like them get education, are cared for and provided for. But these poor children learn the harsh realities of life before their young minds can even understand them; and earning the very hard way those grown-ups do. These children are treated brutally in many cases, including sexual abuse and harassing. When their soft, tiny, unskilled hands cannot learn a particular skill, they are mistreated, beaten up, cursed… And they grow up in fear.

The whole idea of this post is to ask you, to do a little something for these children. There are countless ways in which we can make life a little easier for them if we put our minds and hearts to it. To start with, there are so many related causes available on the Internet that one can join. You can donate money if you can afford it. If not anything, then you can promote this cause . 
November 14th is celebrated as children's day -Come on, let’s do something for these little angels. Let us make life seem a little bit easier for them. Trust me, in the end when you’re done, just their mere smiles will be so worth it!

 Now Playing - Heal the world | Micheal jackson

We are the world, we are the children

We are the ones who make a brighter day

So let’s start giving

There’s a choice we're making

We’re saving our own lives

It’s true we’ll make a better day

Just you and me

 

Enjoy the winter season ahead, and take very good care of yourselves and those around you.

Hugs~~

 

Note to SeLf ---> Keep Moving !!!

 

 

 

 

 You can either choose to carry the hurt inside you or you can let it make you a better person by learning something from it. You'll have your share of good and bad people in your life. While the good ones come by as blessings, without the bad ones you won't appreciate the goodness in them. So keep the good things and blow away every thing hurtful; life's too beautiful to miss!

 

 When you haven't forgiven those who've hurt you, you turn your back against your future. When you do forgive, you start walking forward.

 

Spread the love.

There’s always something to be thankful for........

Dear My Heart ,

Thanks for being so big and ambitious when it comes to LOVE. I can only hope the rest of me catches up with you someday .

Love ,
Blaze.

Dear Skype ,


Thanks for letting me have coffee with my friend across the seven seas.
Really appreciate it. See you soon .

Love,
Blaze.

Dear Goodbyes,

Thank you for almost never being final . I hope to bid you two, three, four times at least ..may be more.

All the best,
Blaze.

Dear Haircuts ,

Thank you for not being permanent.

Love,
Blaze.

             

               Dear Hope,
               Thank you for being alive .

                Love,
                Blaze.

MatrimOniaL masaLa !!

These are actual ads on a matrimony site. just read this and burst out laughing. Grammar and spelling errors have no place in a profile description as everything is straight from the heart!
Disclaimer : I am not responsible if you forget your basic grammar after reading this...

1) i am looking for soft and person with service minded
(err....soft and person? He wants a teddy bear).



2) hi i am looking for partner. tell to you later.
(oh! What a surprise! Shhhh. He’ll tell “to” us later).



3) hi I am looking for a nice paresan sample beautiful co operative sensitive wife................
(I hope he finds a nice paresan)



4) i need homemaker edn caste no bar. iam legaaly divorced living with widowed mother who is getting monthly pension Rs. 10, 000/... four sisters all married living in a rented hose working in the railway
(living in rented HOSE? Poor things!!)



5) i m stock market analyst, i do my self business [analysis & advice ] & for my clients.. since 1991-92 my nature is simple, no any bed habits, believe in god, heard working,
(NO bed habits? I want bed habits. Get lost. And he’s “heard working” too!)



6) Hello, I am simple, spiritual, nice. We speak Haryanvi at home, Hindi. I understand Punjabi but do not speak.  I am not into filmy-life. I listen to bhajans/kirtans. I keep life simple. I believe living life is better in family/relatives. I am here looking for a woman one who does not drink alcohol or smoke, non-veg is okay; I have less desire for non-veg. being talkative is okay, but not obnoxious, not money-crazy, one who is traditional yet 'knowledged'.
(Sorry, I am talkative AND obnoxious. But I am also “knowledged”)



7) hi i am malik from spain i luking very nice girl honest
(Really? You luking very nice girl honest? Good on you, mate!)



8) he is a farmer, 150 acres of land, only 2 sisters i married younger yet to be, no other liabilty, he is handsome truely veg.
(He is TRUELY veg. He is a cow.)



9) Also, Passionate doctor, working as a Assistant Surgeon cum Anaesthetist {government servant}. Also serving as NSVT Specialist {consulting}. I am looking for accomodative medico {MD/MS/Diploma/MBBS/BDS/MDS/BAMS} or any other professionally qualified bride.
(Uggggghhhhh, a passionate doctor working as a Surgeon cum Anaesthetist and wanting an “accommodative medico”...ugggggghhhh.....they should censor these posts!!)



10) hi im family living person my marrige life is 11 yers gone then NOW DIVORCE IN PROCESS.
(He needs counselling.)



11) My cousine looking for a good charactred bride with graduation & age 30-35 range looking for partner tell you later.
(Your cousine can look someplace else.)



12) I AM SELF MADE BUSINESS MAN WAS WORKING NOW RUNNING MY OWN MULTIPAL KIND OF BUSSINESES
(MULTIPAL? Sounds cool.)



13) hi i am new this side i dont know how i start but just i want say i am honest man and i have big heart i like honesty and i dont like lie other things we can share over phone i am looking nice girl who know means good life not only make kids i dont like money minded girl respect frist and understand eachothers i am going india visit 4 march 2011 i dont know how long i stay there if any body like my profile and want talk with me most wel come drop me yours phone and emails i can call you but plz only real not time pass
(I like him. Respect “frist” and understand eachothers”. This is the right way ahead).



14) i am searching good lucking smart, beautiful girl.
(Good lucking to you, mate!)



15) very emotional very jovel and understanding religious
(Really? Still emotional and jovel despite the religious?)



16) Honest and simple, prefer who likes cooking and be patient and matured. must be relocatable. Must be clean and organized.
(Oooooh. MUST BE RELOCATABLE. Mustn’t have her @$$ fixed to the floor)



17) i am care and loving person. i am working at paradigm electronics about 10 yrs. parts and service manager in there.
(Parts and service? Sounds VERY interesting. I’m in.)



18) he is fun loving person, easy to mix with. he like to make new friends and traveling. he need someone who dont kick him from back.
(Oh, I’d be HAPPY to kick him from front.)



19) Hi!! I am Cassanova I have completed my Associates degree in Health Sciences.
(Cassanova? Not Cassava-nova?)



20) cool mind and having strong nevers. trust worthy and help ful. i like music, long drive, fishing and cooking games, boating, watching movies
(Strong nevers? NEVER NEVER, not even if you are help ful.)



21) I am a sincer man. as i am working in Jamaica. I love to listen music news and sport and computer.
(Yo soy un hombre sincero...and he listens to “music news” too!)



22) I M AGED DIVORCED PERSON.. AND LOOKING ABOUT 30 TO 40 YEAR WODDOW... OR DIVORCED.. OR LITTLE HANDICAPED.. LADY FOR MARRIAGE...BUT ONLY CANADIAN... OR AUSTRALIAN.. ONLY. ACTUALLY I WANN TO SPEND MY LAST STAGE TIME IN ABROAD.
(What a pity I’m not a WODDOW. I would have applied immediately!)



23) i like to unterstanting person share my feeling. give respect. love every persons. not get angery for simple things. becose we live once in this world. we have to be happy all this time.
(Philosophy teacher)



24) Little religious, exercised spiritura or supernaturals, looking for preety
(He’s an alien)



25) iam a good natured person and i prefer a cooperative wife.
(Really? Cooperative? I thought joint stock company was better.)

26) i want a girl with no drinks if she wants she can wear jeans in house but while steping out of house she should give recpect to our cast
(by not wearing her jeans? ahem...)

27) Im very out going and jolly gay.
(Err....that says it ALL.)

Disney ConnexN !!

When I was a little girl, I dearly wished to be a mermaid. I was thoroughly taken by the red headed, free spirited Ariel from The Little Mermaid. There have been many nights when I used to pray as hard as I could for God to magically turn me into a mermaid when I woke up in the morning. I actually believed that will happen if I prayed hard enough. Why, I'll be so persuasive God will see how good I am and grant me this humble wish. Surely it will not be a big deal for him. And when I wake up and see that I have grown fins, I'll ask mama not to miss me too much and to set me free into the ocean. **giggles**

The more important task at hand was to live that free willed, free spirited life, and isn't that such a life demands sacrifices? Surely mama will understand and will move closer to the ocean so we can see and meet each other often. Realizing I had to have a Plan B, in case for some reason God decides not to turn me into a mermaid was to be, what else, but a human. That would be boring. But well, that was another way of being, wasn't it? I missed out being the lovely Ariel and meeting Prince Eric. Not to mention Flounder and Sebastian. Blah! I was crazy or what. Plan A was full of complications but was very rewarding; Plan B was easy, more natural to me and boring :/ No fish friends, no singing and dancing, no mane of flaming red hair, not having a father who was kind of the seven seas, no prince charming, (ahem). I was a sad puppy.
So where does this story lead to? No where actually, except that I got stuck on being a human and it turned out it wasn't so bad. Of course I had pangs of longing of being a mermaid till I was 13, but I eventually got over it. I grew up and tackled a few things and realized I didn't have to be a mermaid or a fish to be free spirited. I could do it right in my own skin and the way I was. It was just a matter of choice that always came with difficulty but was very rewarding. You shape yourself not by the color of your hair or anything you carry or wear. You define yourself simply by the choices you make in life.

Choose wisely!


P.S. Oh and have a Plan B, please. In case you mess up! Disney has this way of tampering with your ability to distinguish between real and absurd notions.

 

 P.P.S. This write up does not guide you into the How-To's of getting a Prince Charming. There aren't many. Look elsewhere.

EASY WAY OUT ------------>

 

There is no easy way out of problems. The only right way is going all the way. Sometimes it costs you a hell lot of things, but then you must know, in the closing moments of the day, the only one left with you is your shadow.  The question is: can you face yourself after the choices you make?

So, even though there may be an easy way out for me, I'll take the longer route. I need to be answerable to myself at the end of the day. No regrets in life for life. Tomorrow is going to be one heck of a brilliant day. I'm gonna OWN it well!

Hope u hv a gr8 weekend! 

Toodles~